No, Thank You Resource Pack – A Resource for Building Confidence and Kind Boundaries

A creative, printable companion to the "No, Thank You" storybook, designed to help children practise saying no with kindness.

Learning how to say "no" is an important part of growing up, but it doesn’t always come easily. Children need gentle, supportive ways to practise setting boundaries and making choices for themselves.

The No, Thank You Activity Pack provides fun, thoughtful ways for kids to explore how and when to say no in everyday situations. It turns the themes of the storybook into hands-on learning experiences that build self-awareness, kindness, and communication skills.

Whether you're a parent, teacher, or therapist, this printable resource is a valuable addition to your SEL or wellbeing toolkit.

About this resource:

This printable activity pack is designed to complement the No, Thank You storybook but some resources also function beautifully on their own. Each activity encourages reflection, conversation, or imaginative play around the idea of saying "no, thank you" in a calm, confident way.

The pack includes colouring sheets, creative drawing prompts, conversation cards, and a yes/no game, all developmentally appropriate for children aged 4–8. The tone is empowering, playful, and inclusive, supporting a variety of learning and emotional styles.

Features:

• Printable PDF with multiple activity pages.
• Colourable and interactive designs.
• How to use guide for educators, parents and professionals.
• Chat cards to encourage discussion around the story.
• Yes/No card game for real-life scenarios.
• Drawing and journaling prompts.
• Designed for ages 4–8.s
• Pairs perfectly with the No, Thank You storybook

Activities include:

• Chat Cards: Conversation starters to reflect on story moments and real-life situations.
• Draw a Time You Said No Worksheet: Visual storytelling to express personal boundaries.
• Yes or No Game: Scenario cards for playful practice with decision-making.
• "No, Thank You" Worksheet: Open-ended resource to explore when and how to say no.
• Colouring Sheets: Six calming pages featuring story characters and boundary-affirming phrases.

Benefits:

• Supports social-emotional development and respectful communication.
• Normalises saying no through story-based scenarios and activities.
• Builds confidence and assertiveness in everyday interactions.
• Encourages creativity and personal reflection.
• Strengthens vocabulary for expressing preferences and boundaries.
• Easy to use at home, in the classroom, or in therapeutic settings.

How To Use:

1. Print out the activities and set up a quiet, creative space.
2. Start with a story reading (optional) or jump right into a worksheet.
3. Use chat cards to open up thoughtful discussions.
4. Play the Yes or No game to explore boundary-setting in fun scenarios..
5. Encourage children to draw, colour, or write their own responses.
6. Repeat activities as children grow in confidence.

Suggested Uses:

• Pair with the No, Thank You storybook as a follow-up activity.
• Use independently in PSHE or SEL lesson plans.
• Add to therapy toolkits for confidence and communication work.
• End-of-day or mindfulness time activity in classrooms.
• Group discussions or one-on-one learning.

The No, Thank You Resource Pack turns the powerful message of the storybook into meaningful, playful learning. Each activity reinforces the idea that children can say no, and still be kind, thoughtful, and respectful.

This is more than just a bunch of resources: it's a tool for building confidence, communication, and healthy boundaries from an early age.